I’m sure you know the one. Curiousity got the best of me and perused twitter for about 30 minutes. I feel sick to my stomach. Not just because of the infertility business. I also cannot pass judgment on those women who are using this hashtag. But right now, it sure is hard.
I had a baby taken from me. Evacuated from my uterus entirely too soon. But even before then, before the struggle to conceive.
I will take all your babies. Every last one of them.
*Let me be clear, I know there are medical life endangering situations, this is not what I am talking about. When I went in for my surgery of because of my crazy bleedy bleedy cervix, Joseph and I had made the decision IF it was a choice between me or Calvin, it would be me. That wasn’t giving them permission to kill Calvin, but it one of us was going to die… well you get it. I know some women have ectopic pregnancies that have to be taken care of, or other medical conditions, this is not what I’m upset about. I’m upset about convenience being a factor. I know many of you will likely have differing opinions, and that’s ok.